How I met my fiance??????
It was October and I had just started working at my night job Fri-Sat 10pm till 7am in the club here. I was so nervous the first few days due to me not knowing anyone on the island and I felt as if the eye was on me wherever I went. Due to me being the new girl, blonde & very young (19yrs old). This might not seem strange to some of you people but here o this island it is like a black swan in the lake with all the white swans. Every time I looked around there was someone staring at me. You might think this was a nice thing, I mean nice to be noticed but no it was too much and made me feel uncomfortable. But what can you do……. You just get on with it!!!!
One night there was a tall, handsome, dark blonde guy staring in my direction. He stud out from everyone else. Due to him being a lighter colour to all the other people in the club. He was about 1,90m with dark blonde hair, blue eyes & a gorguess smile. I didn’t really take any notice of when people stared at me but this was different. I tried not to pay any attention to him, which was easy due to me being run of my feet making drinks. It was ok…. until he came over to the bar where I was working and asked me to make him a drink & 1 for his friend. He then asked me where was I from? You could definitely see he was trying to make convocation. Shortly into our conversation he told me that he was German but has been brought up all his life in Greece. So more enough 99% Greek & 1%German (Blood). From that moment on our eyes kept meeting. I seen him every day in work but we didn’t speak to each other again we just let on to each other Hahahahaha……………………
He was with his friend and their friend was working on the cash machine next to me. So I always had him next to me. It was fun, I really liked their company. We had a laugh every night, my friends would come in and we would all be together laughing & joking. It made time pass….
Around 2weeks later I was out for coffee with one of my friends. His friend that worked on the cash machine at the club called me and asked where I was, and then whether we wanted to go with him for lunch. My friend didn’t mind so we arranged to meet in an hour just a little further down from the coffee shop we were at. So the hour pasted and me & my friend walked to meet him at the top of the hill. But then what did we see…………………the tall blonde German man. He was there standing next to his friend just staring. I couldn’t believe it.
I acted calm and carried on walking over to them. We all said hi and then as I was walking over to his friends car he shouted “ay babe….you’re over here” so I got in his ride instead and my friend went with his friend. As you have probably guessed the two cars where both only two seaters. They were a smart car & Mercedes SLK compressor. Which was annoying because we all could have been in one car but it actually made it more interesting & exciting hahaha…
In the 10minute car journey we just chatted about everyday things. Once we arrived at the tavern…. their other friend who was the German guys best friend, was there waiting. At dinner we all laughed and joked but nothing happened with me & the handsome man. We sat next to each other but I got the feeling he was shy even tho he was loud & acted hard. We didn’t even speak to each other even though we were sat next to each other. It was more of a group conversation but still it was okay. We didn’t even know each other yet so there wasn’t much we could say to each other. We could just ask each other a lot of questions hahaha and we couldn’t have done that due to us not being alone. Also to be honest I went off him because all they spoke about was money ……who had the most and who never. Things like that really piss me off. It wasn’t just me tho my friend was showing that their conversation was pissing her off. She was sitting there with her head down and rolling her eyes. Which was making me laugh. I don’t care about things like this because money can’t buy you a lot of things. Actually the most important things in life it can’t buy you. It can only help you in lots of ways.
Anyway when we left the taverna we then went to a coffee shop in the centre where it was only me, my friend, him & his friend (not the one who worked with me he had to leave us). We chatted a little more and then said our thanks for dinner & goodbyes. Me & my friend went home to mine.
Once we arrived back we chatted about the dinner with another girlfriend of ours. She was not really happy with me getting involved with their company. The three gentlemen didn’t really have a good name with the ladies. To be correct someone had told me at the time “fuck & run”. Our girlfriend had a bad feeling because these men had been with lots of girls and used them (that’s just men for you though….it’s their nature ha-ha….). At the time I didn’t take any notice because I wasn’t interested anyway as I said before I just wanted to be left alone and to have as much fun as possible. So I just laughed & didn’t pay much attention to what they were saying,
1week pasted and I got on with my life as usual new jobs having fun going out with the girlies and friends for coffee & drinks. It was great…….I loved it and to be honest I didn’t even think about men. Then the Friday night came and as usual I got ready went to the club. Then as usual around 1:30am – 2am they walked income to their usual spot & said hi to the usual people. We once again had a great night laughing and joking.
Saturday night came and went. We were closing and I went to the bathroom and as I was washing my hands some man walked in and looked me up and down and asked me how I was. He then asked me whether I was going to see the other girl staff again because they had left there two phones on the bar side. As I had made plans with them to meet at the bakery (like every night) I told him I would take their phones. He then carried on staring and I laughed and asked him whether I could help him with anything else. And he replied ‘no no am sorry am just leaving’ hahahahaha MEN!!!
When I arrived at the bakery there were a lot of people including the two girls I worked with and the man from before in the toilets with his friends. They were sitting altogether and shouted me to go over. I bought something to eat and then joined them. They were funny too……. nice lads. I was thinking to me I really like this island and the people. At this moment one of the girls telephone rang and she started shouting because the person on the telephone was teasing her…..he wouldn’t tell her who it was. Then all of a sudden while I was having a conversation, with the boy from the toilet and how I ended up in santorini at winter time. She shouted my name and told me there was a ‘malaka’ on the telephone asking for me hahahahahaha…………… (Just for all you people who don’t know what malaka means it means WANKER lol). I took the phone and at this minute everyone was looking at me. An guess who it was??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
The gorguess German lad asking how I was getting home. So I told him by taxi I didn’t like people taking me home especially people I didn’t know. He offered to take me home but I told him it was no problem for me to get a taxi, he wouldn’t take no for an answer and so I agreed. He arrived in a matter of 2minutes ha-ha I didn’t even have time to say bye to everyone. I tried to not make it obvious that I was meeting him. To be honest I didn’t care I just wanted to get in his car and see him. Like I said I didn’t feel anything for him yet I just liked the way he was with me. Not too much flirting just enough to show me that he liked me……………
On the way home we chatted about different things. Things like how I ended up here? Relationships, what were my future plans? Etc. So I told him I wanted to be alone that’s why I came to the island ………….. At the time I didn’t know for sure yet that he liked me. An now when we talk about it he tells me “what I was meant to say after you said you didn’t want anyone” hahahahaha…….. ”I didn’t know what to say next” Bless him!!!! But how was I meant to know lol!!! I just thought he was just like the others just wanting that 1thing………..
He left me at my home just like a perfect gentleman ……….before I left his car he asked me for my telephone number. I gave it to him, said thank you for ride and goodnight. I went to bed that night with a big smile on my face and wondering whether he would call sometime through the week………
The week pasted quickly and no call or text message from him. It was soon Friday again……. And as usual at 1:30 – 2am he & his friend walked in the club. But this time it was different there was more feeling to it. Excitement, cheeky smiling at each other and lots of flirting. He seemed like a nice lad but I thought don’t be fooled. Their all like that until they get what they want. But still I thought fuck it lets just have a little bit of fun. So we laughed, danced, flirted and had lots to drink. He took me home again but once again nothing happened we just chatted. But this was not the end of the night this time……………… I went for my shower and when I returned to my bed and checked my phone he had texted me. Asking what I was doing? I replied and told him how I had just got out of the shower and was lying in bed now. At this point I could see he was interested in me. We said goodnight to each other after a couple more texts nothing special. But now I knew he was interested because why would he text me and make conversation over these things if he wasn’t.
The next Fri.-sat was the same routine but there was more & more flirting and chatting. You could see that this was heading somewhere. That Saturday he once again wouldn’t let me take a taxi so I let him take me home again. I jumped in the shower and knew that when I got out there would be a text message wanting for me. We arranged to do something the day after so once we woke up, we arranged to call each other and sort something out. My Greek friend who had come to the tavern with us last week was still here on holiday. This night she had stayed out …….what more can I say she was on her holidays, single and found a Greek lover hahahaha……so in the morning when I woke up fresh and ready to go because I hadn’t barely drink nothing the night before. I was cleaning my house when my friend pulled up with guess who…? The barman who I worked with. She came in, we both burst out laughing & then we went for a walk on the beach to gossip a little hahaha about her night. She told me what they did & you all know. Well am sure all the ladies know what we gossiped about. Then we went back to my place to get ready. I had spoken with my flirt on the telephone; he woke up a little later than me. Probably because he had drank the night before but he rang me straight away. He had the morning after croaking voice. We arranged to go to his around 6-7pm to chill and watch a film. Me & my friend hahahaha……. I just wanted to make sure & also I didn’t want to leave her alone.
So 6pm he was meant to be coming to get us but he called and asked whether it was ok if he never because he had a new cleaner, cleaning his house & didn’t want to leave her alone in the house. Of course I & my friend didn’t have a problem with this. He lived only 15-20mins walking distance from my house. My friend was happy with him not coming, so that she had more time to get ready. He texted me wondering where we where and I told him we were running late but would be there shortly. Thank God he only lived nearby due to us not having a car. I had to drag my friend out of my bathroom & the house hahahaha……she’s terrible. Thankfully a car drove past us & my friend put her hand out. The gentleman stopped & it was a straight road so he was able to take us. We got their around 7pm and he seemed really happy to see us (or should I say me). It was a nice feeling. Anyway 20mins later we decided to go and get a chinese take away.So my friend stayed at his with the cleaner & of course he wanted us two to go alone to chat a little hahahaha……………………………I can’t deny it he was a gentleman indeed. An like you all know gentlemen are hard to find now a days!!!!!!But I kept telling myself don’t be fooled it might just be a front.
So we left to go and get the take away. It was even nicer this time (the drive in his car). We seemed more relaxed & like we had known each other for longer. We got our Chinese take away and arrived back home. My friend was fine she had got into a deep conversation with the foreign cleaner hahahahaha…… am positive she never understood any word my friend had said to her! (She does have a hapit of doing that LOL getting into conversations with strangers hahaha & not caring even if they can understand her). We ate, chatted, giggled & watched the film but the night pasted quick and before I knew it I was back home in bed getting cuddled……. but guyssssss not by who you all think………………………….it was just my girl friend giving me a goodnight cuddle & to say a big thanks for me letting her stay with me. All the next weekdays I was around at his house every night watching films and just chatting, It was fun and kind of sexy…..event though we hadn’t even kissed. I was beginning to think he didn’t like me in that way and he just liked my company. I was a little confused to be honest.
An then my questions left, when on the Thursday I couldn’t take no more I wanted to know…. So as I was sitting on him, we were both teasing each other……………………I kissed him & he kissed me back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It was perfectttttttttttttt………………………………….mmmmmmmmmmmm……..I can just remember the feeling, the taste & the excitement just like it was yesterday. I thought I was dreaming at the time. I was thinking FINALLY!!!!!!!! We kissed a little bit more until it got late and I wanted to go home because I had work in the morning and the night. Fridays were a little bit tiring due to me working am and pm and in the afternoon seeing him so I didn’t rest at all. He asked me to stay and told me he would take me in the morning but I refused. I told him another time……….
When I got home and like always after my shower I checked my phone, there was a text message waiting for me. I must have had the biggest smile on my face, it must have been huge. Like from one of my ears to the other…… Good job no one was there to see me I was like a little kid on Christmas morning. The text message was asking me whether I had a nice evening………………… I wanted to make him smile like I had when I seen his text message so I replied that my evening was very nice and that we would have to do it again sometime soon hahahaha………………………
Friday night was fun and this time of course there was a lot more flirting, laughing & joking. Even though I had only known him for about a month I felt like I had known him for much longer.
Saturday night was actually the funniest night of all. We had a blast…… lots of drinks, shots dancing, laughing & flirting. He was a little drunk at the end of the evening lol but still a gentlemen so no complaints in that area. It was like this man couldn’t do anything wrong. I really did think I was dreaming or there was something wrong with him.
On our journey home he was chatting away about I don’t know about what hahahaha I wasn’t listening but sssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh…………..ha-ha! I was just looking at him & thinking why go home to an empty bed when I could go home with this handsome young gentleman and have a nice cuddle. I had missed so much sleeping next to someone and having cuddles. I love my cuddles lots but I think all us ladies do!!!!!! So when we got to the crossroad were for my house you turned left & for his right. He asked me “tonight what will it be? Left or right? I thought let’s leave it for tonight because he was drunk & I was still wanting to get to know him. So I replied left, he didn’t argue hahahaha I don’t think he was in any fit state too hahaha. Am sure at the time he didn’t even know what was going on! As we were nearby my house I told him I liked him & wanted to spend the night with him. It just came out and it felt right, I had never said that before to anyone but it just popped out without me even having a second thought about it. The best part of this was his reply! Like I said before I thought he didn’t even know what was going on, I was right. He told me ‘tomorrow’ hahahahaha……………………. This was the man who had been trying and waiting patieneitly for so long for this to happen. And his reply was tomorrow not now. As if to say ‘love cant u see am wasted …..Another time maybe hahahaha’!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Even though it sounds strange, I found it very amusing at the time and I still laugh now when I remember how he said it……………
So anyway I did what I was told……..still in shock & chuckling away inside. I got out of his car thanked him and went into my house. I kept thinking did that actual happen or am I dreaming lol I thought at first he was joking but when he drove off I released that he wasn’t. Oh well I thought never mind his lose. It also put the thoughts back into my head about when he didn’t kiss me and I had to kiss him first. Then the more I thought about it the more confused I got. I thought maybe he just didn’t like me but I just couldn’t work out why he was spending so much time with me then. So I just forgot about it and thought……MEN!!! It was late and I was knackered so I went for my shower put my crèmes on & pyjamas. As usual checked phone and oh yes you guessed there was a text msg from him but this time it was weird. He was asking why I had left him alone again!!!! LOL I was thinking you can’t be serious………what’s going on???? He must be very drunk indeed. We texted each other like usual trying to figure things out but I just wanted to sleep so I told him that we would speak tomorrow. No chance though because he then called asking the same things LOL he sound very sweet and I actual felt sorry for him (in some kind of weird way) hahaha…. Then guys guess what he told me next………….he was coming to get me. The first thing I thought was I am in my pyjamas without make up on, just got out shower and lovely and warm in bed. I told him no but no chance, I even offered him to come to sleep in my house but he had made his mind up and wanted me in his bed. In 3minutes flat I heard a beep but I hadn’t moved from my bed because I hadn’t believed he was coming. I thought his drunk and would probably just fall asleep after our phone call but nooooooooooooooooooo………………he was outside my house waiting. I thought just fuck it who cares the man can’t see straight never mind see me without make up etc. He didn’t seem shocked at all when he seen me so I thought he’s very very pissed hahahahaha…… We went back to his and oh yesssssssssssssssssssssss…………………………………………………….. we did jiggy jiggy. Guys I am sorry but don’t be waiting for some juicy Goss/info because I can’t remember anything hahahaha……….. that must mean something?????????Right????????? Was it because it was bad, the bad ones you always remember! Or was it because I enjoyed it that much it sent me to another planet (This sounds more like it!!!). All I can remember is when he was about to go inside of me I stopped him to ask were the condom was and he told me, he had a problem and couldn’t wear them. So for once in my life I let my hair down and thought fuck it am sure he’s not a prick to have something and not care about giving it to me. Hahahaha you know the way u have them quick 10secs thoughts that like 10things fit into them 10secs……well it was one of those.
The next morning………………………………………..
We woke up & cuddled for a while then I asked him could he take me home. I wanted to have a shower and get dressed. So he did! He told me to have a shower etc & call him when I was ready to go for coffee……… I was like get in hahahahaha……………..he still wants to see me!! So we did & I can say from that night on I think I stayed at his home every night. Thankfully my work lent me a car, a smart car & I could get to work by myself. I hated having to ask people or waiting on other people. It just wasn’t me!
Weeks pasted & we were having a ball. Things couldn’t have been better. We really got on. We loved each other’s company. An just wanted to be together all day every day. An so we were ….. Hahaha only from when we had to work!!!
Christmas time came and I had time off work from my morning job so we decided to go away for a week.
I told my boss in the night job I had a lye that I was going to see my family. So it was great……..we went to the Thessaloniki.
We went for 1week (Christmas day etc.) and his friend met us there so it was just the three of us! We had a good time just visiting different places in the snow. Going out every night having a laugh. I loved it!
After we returned he started saying that I should leave my house and come to live with him. I thought about it and 1month later I did and moved fully in with him. It felt great but I was scared of it not going right due to what had happened in my last relationship. But I just thought what could go wrong….. the worst he could do is what happened with my ex and thought FUCK it I will just get back up if he kicks me down…..did it once can do it again!
Then after I had moved in he started talking about my night job not suiting me and that I should leave it and he would help me find a new one. So ……….I did…….My last night was the 14th February!!! We had a Valentines Party in work so it was a good send off…………